Woodman, maybe you were not rough with Dido but you were with many other girls. 
I saw it that many times. 
Maybe its not fair to have double standards, but i can understand that all girls are not same.
About Dido i think that many of us like to see real angel in hard, hard sex [one of most often male fantasies is good, nice neighbor girl having wild sex]. But is she is not in that mood its ok.
For me, i don't like when see some of your "old" male actors who are not hard all the time [how about cutting off that parts?]  
Also, i prefer bigger dicks in porn [not necessary hard anal but big dick]. For example i enjoy watching this guy in action [and Dido seems to like him too 

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		 And I hate this guy>